Start with the building, because in Wilmington the nearest hospital and the likely hospital are not the same hospital. ChristianaCare Wilmington Hospital, at 501 West Fourteenth Street in 19801, is roughly a mile from the 19806 centroid and carries the city's downtown inpatient work — medical floors, the Roxana Cannon Arsht Surgicenter, and ChristianaCare's inpatient rehabilitation beds. But a serious admission from a city address usually means a drive out of the city. Christiana Hospital, eight miles southwest on Ogletown-Stanton Road in Newark, holds Delaware's only Level 1 trauma center, the Helen F. Graham Cancer Center & Research Institute, the Center for Heart & Vascular Health, and the busiest maternity service in the state. A crash on I-95, a new cancer diagnosis, a stent and most babies born to Wilmington families land there rather than downtown. Children go the opposite direction: Nemours Children's Hospital, Delaware, at 1600 Rockland Road in 19803 — the building two generations of Delawareans still call A. I. duPont — sits in the estate country north of the city and takes referrals from three states. Saint Francis Hospital at Seventh and Clayton keeps the West Side's own beds, and the Wilmington VA Medical Center at 1601 Kirkwood Highway is the only VA hospital in the state. Inpatient behavioral care happens at the Rockford Center in Newark, which accepts no flowers at all. So the first question is not what to send. It is which of those six buildings, because the answer moves the nearest studio by eight miles and rewrites the rules on the floor.
What a floor accepts is a building-by-building fact rather than a house style, and the strictest address on this grid is the children's hospital. At Nemours, the pediatric hematology-oncology floor, the cardiac unit and intensive care all screen what comes off the trolley: lilies do not pass, nothing perfumed passes, and latex is refused throughout a hospital full of children who react to it — mylar balloons are fine, rubber ones are not. Newborn intensive care there takes no deliveries whatsoever, but that does not leave you without an address: the Ronald McDonald House of Delaware, a few hundred yards along Rockland Road from the hospital entrance, accepts flowers at its front desk for a family staying there — which for parents six weeks into living out of a hospital room is the more useful gift anyway. At the Graham Cancer Center, and on the infusion side of both ChristianaCare campuses, the exclusion nobody predicts is soil: potting compost is a living culture, and on a floor where the patient's white-cell count is the number everyone watches, it does not come through the door. Hold the plant for the day they go home — it is otherwise the best get-well object in this catalogue. In the Center for Heart & Vascular Health step-down beds and the intensive-care rooms downtown, the objection is scent rather than species: a stargazer or a fistful of freesia perfumes a whole nursing bay through a shut door, and somebody two rooms along is having their nausea actively managed. Where a unit is closed outright, a relative carries it up from the lobby. The permissive end of the county is easy to name: the rehabilitation unit at Wilmington Hospital, post-surgical floors at both campuses, and Christiana's maternity floors, where the limits are a small room and a two-night stay. What clears all of it is deliberately unglamorous — spray roses, carnations, alstroemeria, lisianthus, a gerbera or two, greened with solidago rather than anything that drops, built wide and low in a ceramic or tin container. Tall glass is wrong twice: the footprint on a tray that also holds a meal and a jug, and the fact that it breaks.