Restaurant deliveries deserve a blunt paragraph. Missoula's dinner rooms are small and mostly downtown — The Depot on West Railroad, Plonk and Biga Pizza on the Higgins blocks, The Pearl Café near the Wilma, Caffe Dolce out on Brooks — and a table for two in a room that seats forty has nowhere to put a two-foot arrangement. Most kitchens will accept flowers at the host stand and hand them over at the end of the meal, which works, but the romantic image of a bouquet already standing on the table when you arrive is something only the restaurant can authorize, not the florist. If that is the plan, call the restaurant yourself, ask permission, then tell us the answer. The alternative most couples end up happier with: send the arrangement to the house in the afternoon so it is waiting when you both get home, and let dinner be dinner. If the reservation is out of town — the resorts up the Blackfoot toward Greenough and Potomac, the lodges out US-12 past Lolo toward Lolo Hot Springs, the guest ranches down the Bitterroot past Hamilton — those are scheduled runs of 30 to 60 minutes each way and need a day of notice, especially on a winter road.
Home delivery is where Missoula anniversaries actually land most of the time, and the city's neighborhoods sort themselves in a way that is worth knowing. The University District and the Slant Streets, south of the Clark Fork and east of Higgins, hold the older craftsman and bungalow stock where a long-married couple is statistically most likely to live — tree-lined, addressed clearly, and a four-minute run from the shop. The Lower and Upper Rattlesnake run north along the creek past Greenough Park toward the national recreation area, quiet and increasingly rural as you climb. Rose Park, Franklin to the Fort and River Road spread south and west of Brooks. Farviews–Pattee Canyon, South 39th Street and the Linda Vista and Miller Creek subdivisions climb the south hills in 59803, with the longest driveways and the best views. Target Range and Emma Dickinson–Orchard Homes occupy the old orchard land west between the rivers in 59804, and Grant Creek runs north in 59808. Two Missoula-specific asks: for a fiftieth or sixtieth anniversary, tell us if the recipients are in an assisted-living or skilled-nursing residence, because those buildings have front-desk intake and some restrict certain flowers on memory-care wings. And in midwinter, when valley inversions hold cold air on the floor for days, include a phone number rather than trusting a porch.