Then the shape of the thing, which in this valley is dictated by where people actually go. A romance bouquet here usually has to be carried, photographed and held in one hand for twenty minutes, and that is a different object from a vase arrangement. Longwood Gardens is the obvious stage and the winter one: from January into March the conservatory is the only warm place in Chester County with four acres of flowers under glass, which is why so many February plans in this borough are a Longwood afternoon rather than a dinner. Go on a weekday if you can; the conservatory on a Saturday in February is genuinely crowded, and a proposal in a queue is not what you pictured. Anson B. Nixon Park on the north edge of the borough is the local, unfussy answer — ponds, trails, five minutes from Juniper Street. White Clay Creek Preserve out at Landenberg and the Brandywine at Chadds Ford are the walks people take when they want nobody else in the photograph, and Winterthur's woods on Kennett Pike come into flower early in spring. For all of them ask for a wrapped hand-tie, stems bound and cut short enough to hold comfortably, in a palette rather than a mixed bag of colours. Say in the notes that it is a proposal and where it is happening, and the studio builds for carrying instead of for a table.
The everyday version — no occasion, no reservation, a Tuesday — has its own rules here and they are mostly about the door. Inside the borough, the grid of State, Union, Broad, Birch, Mulberry, Cypress and Linden is porch-front rows and twins with one bell, and a great many of those households run on mushroom-house hours: the growing houses out at Toughkenamon, Avondale and New Garden are picked starting in the dark, so somebody who began work at four in the morning is home by early afternoon and asleep soon after. An evening drop often beats a midday one. Out in the townships — East Marlborough, Kennett Township, New Garden, Pennsbury, the Unionville side — driveways run long and a landmark in the notes saves the driver a hunt. Two things worth asking for by name. If what you have in mind is the large wrapped hand-held bouquet rather than a vase arrangement, say so; it is a common and perfectly buildable request in this town, and the studio will bind and wrap accordingly. And if the household speaks Spanish, write the card in Spanish — a great many do here, and a message in the language actually spoken in the house is worth more than an extra five dollars of stems. Leave a mobile number so the driver can call rather than knock, especially if the whole point is that the recipient should not see a van from the window.
A few closing mechanics. If the evening involves a night away, the valley's options are the Fairville Inn on Kennett Pike, the Mendenhall Inn on Route 52, the Brandywine River Hotel at Chadds Ford, the Inn at Montchanin Village over the Delaware line and Hotel Warner up in West Chester — address the order to the front desk under the reservation surname with the check-in date, and time it against the arrival hour rather than the middle of the afternoon, since nothing goes into a room before the guests do. If the two of you are at a distance, the campuses in range are West Chester University twelve miles northeast, the University of Delaware in Newark about fourteen miles south, and Lincoln University — chartered in 1854 as the country's first degree-granting historically Black college — roughly thirteen miles southwest out Baltimore Pike toward Oxford. Student addresses are mailroom addresses: give us the full name, the residence hall and a mobile number, and expect a pickup notice rather than a knock on a door. Finally, the surprise clause. Tell us in the notes if the recipient must not know, and nobody will telephone them to confirm a delivery they are not supposed to be expecting — which is a call we otherwise make as a courtesy, and the single most common way a planned surprise comes apart.