One structural fact shapes almost every sympathy order in Edina: the service is usually held at the family's own church inside the city, while the funeral home doing the arranging is in a neighboring suburb. That is why an Edina sympathy delivery address so often reads as a sanctuary rather than a chapel. Our Lady of Grace at 5071 Eden Avenue and St. Patrick's on the west side carry the Catholic funeral Masses. Christ Presbyterian and Normandale Lutheran, both on Normandale Road within a few blocks of each other, and Colonial Church of Edina on Colonial Way, handle a large share of the Protestant services, and all three have the room for the crowds an Edina memorial can draw. The firms that run the visitations and transport work out of the ring around the city - Washburn-McReavy's chapels, including Werness Brothers and Dawn Valley on the Bloomington side and Glen Haven in Crystal; Morris Nilsen Funeral Chapel in Richfield, just across Xerxes from Edina's 55423 edge; Ballard-Sunder in the Shakopee and Prior Lake corner, which is the same ground Pearson Florist covers; and Hodroff-Epstein Memorial Chapels in Minneapolis, which handles most of the Jewish services for families in this part of the metro. Tell us the church or chapel name and the service time and the florist works backward from it. If the family has already told you the arrangements are handled by a specific funeral home, name that too - the directors here are used to coordinating placement with local shops and will say where a piece should stand.
Timing in the Twin Cities follows a pattern worth knowing before you order. The visitation is very often the hour immediately before the service, in the same building, which means flowers that arrive during that hour arrive too late to be seen by most of the people who came. The safe window is the morning of, or the evening before if there is a separate evening visitation. Then there is the part nobody outside a cold-winter state thinks about: from roughly December through March, the ground here is frozen, so a burial may be deferred to spring while the memorial service goes ahead on schedule. In that case the flowers belong at the church, not at a cemetery, and a plant sent to the house often outlives the whole week. When a winter committal does go ahead, Fort Snelling National Cemetery off 34th Avenue South runs it through a committal shelter on a tight published schedule with military honors, and a piece has to be there before the procession arrives, not after. Lakewood Cemetery on Hennepin Avenue in Minneapolis - the 1871 garden cemetery with the mosaic-lined Memorial Chapel, where Hubert H. Humphrey and Paul Wellstone are buried - is the other common graveside destination for Edina families, about five miles up from the Country Club District. Gethsemane in New Hope and Resurrection in Mendota Heights take the Catholic burials. Greens go brittle fast below ten degrees, so the shops move sympathy work in heated vehicles and skip water tubes that can freeze and split on a graveside piece.
Three details get a sympathy order right, and they are exactly the ones people forget during a hard week. The first is attribution. Tell us precisely how the card should read - a family surname, a company, a team, a list of first names - because the funeral director will stand that card where mourners read it, and a misspelling cannot be fixed at eleven in the morning. The second is receiving. A church office is not staffed around the clock, so for a Saturday service ask whether the building will be open Friday afternoon or whether the funeral home should take the piece instead; the directors at the Bloomington, Richfield and Crystal chapels handle that question every week and will tell you which they prefer. The third is the shape of the room. A low table arrangement, a pair for the altar and a standing easel design behave very differently in a sanctuary the size of Christ Presbyterian's or Our Lady of Grace's, and an easel piece needs a stand that the funeral home normally supplies rather than the florist. Say which you intend - or tell the shop your relationship to the family and let the designer make the call.