Ask a Monterey Park couple how they are marking thirty years and the answer is usually a reservation for fourteen. The silver and golden anniversaries in this city are family events, not weekends away: the children book a banquet room or a long table at one of the Atlantic Boulevard seafood houses, grandchildren come, a ten-course menu runs for three hours, and somebody's cousin gives a toast. That changes what the flowers are for. They are not a bedside surprise; they are a pair of arrangements for the head table, or a large potted phalaenopsis presented to the parents, or a bouquet waiting at the house before the family convoy leaves for dinner. There is also a scheduling quirk that catches out-of-town senders and national order-gatherers alike. A great many weddings in this community were dated by almanac, for auspiciousness, rather than by which Saturday the hall was free — so the anniversaries fall on ordinary weekdays, and the benches on this grid see midweek anniversary volume that most American markets only see on weekends. If the date is a Tuesday, that is not a mistake in the order.
The couple's-night-out half of the occasion mostly leaves the city, because Monterey Park has very little hotel stock of its own. Within a short drive the desks that take anniversary deliveries are the Hilton Los Angeles/San Gabriel on West Valley Boulevard, three miles north in San Gabriel's Valley Boulevard complex; The Langham Huntington on South Oak Knoll Avenue in Pasadena, the grand old hotel above the arroyo; The Westin Pasadena on North Los Robles and Hotel Constance on East Colorado; and downtown, about nine miles west, the Conrad Los Angeles at 100 South Grand, the InterContinental Los Angeles Downtown at 900 Wilshire, and the Millennium Biltmore at 506 South Grand. For any of those, a concierge drop needs three things on the order: the name the room is registered under, the check-in hour, and a phone number, because a bouquet that arrives before the guest does gets held at the desk and a bouquet sent to a name the property does not recognise gets refused. Day-trip anniversaries stay closer — the Huntington Library and gardens on Oxford Road in San Marino, four miles north, and Old Pasadena are the two standing choices, and for the couples who want the evening at home, Atlantic Times Square keeps a cinema and restaurants inside the city limits.